While each family law mediation is unique, there are several elements that can often be found in cases that have been closed successfully. Knowing these ahead of time to help you get the most out of the White Plains family mediation process and reduce any tension or anxiety feel about working through your family law conflict.
The first common element that contributes to success has to do with the selection of the right mediator. Regardless of the kind of family law issue you are facing, find someone who is experienced and comfortable in working with those kinds of issues. It’s rare that a family law mediation is straightforward, but knowing common stumbling blocks and ways to work through problems is a must-have for any mediator.
Second, bring an open mind to the table. Of course you likely feel entrenched in your beliefs or you wouldn’t be in need of mediation services to begin with, but you have to approach the process with the right mindset or you’ll struggle to succeed. One such example is refusing to compromise at all- if the other party feels the same way you’re going to hit a stalemate very quickly.
Finally, know what kind of communication is going to work for you. You don’t actually have to be sitting at the same table as the other party. You can try to work things out in separate rooms by having the mediator travel back and forth between them. Just be clear about what you think will work best during the initial mediation session. Setting solid ground rules and guidelines during this initial session can be especially fruitful in family law mediation.